You're not alone when it comes to breakups. Almost every person has experienced this some time in their life. However, you want your ex back bad, and it seems like you want to make it happen at all cost.
You need to the know the simple steps to reverse the situation so you can get your ex back the right way. If you know the steps, then you will have a very high chance of getting ex back.
The first step is to take a step back, and think about WHY the breakup happened in the first place. You need to learn from your mistakes, and make sure it doesn't happen again.
The second step is don't let your ex see you desperately trying to get back with him or her. You need to know that you are the most important person, way more important than your ex. You have better things to do in life than to sit around and cry all day. Do you call and text your ex constantly? STOP!
The third step is to take very good care of yourself. Start going to the gym if you have not been there yet. Work on your diet and make sure yourself look and feel great. You want to feel like the strongest, independent person on earth.
The fourth step is to make a very brief call to your ex to ask if he or she wants to meet up for lunch. Don't make it seem like a date, and don't ask your ex for second chances. Simply, do small talks and joke around about life. Do some catching up as if your ex is simply your FRIEND. Remember to keep things brief, and don't contact him or her for another week or so. After you guys been hanging out quite some time, you can bring up the topic of getting back together. If you get a "no", you need to just move on.
Although there are no guarantees, you can increase the odds by knowing all the right moves. You can watch a free long video on how to get your ex back.
